`Sugar Coated Delusions`

February 7, 2008

Filed under: Main — melfabro @ 7:31 am

Sometimes we close our eyes and just listen to the echoes of
our hearts. We all fall in love and there are times when we
love so much that we lose ourselves in our own emotions.
More often than not, we wonder why there are love that
grows, and love that grows cold. We would start to search
for answer and try to find where love has gone wrong. But in
the end, we find ourselves where we started for we cannot
question love when it has its own reasons. Love will always
be as it always has been.. silent, mysterious and deeply
profound.

Many of us believe that love is forever, that love never
dies, only to be disillusioned in the end when we find our
hands empty and our hearts longing. We mistakenly have
looked at love as a need to be fulfilled. But love is only a
gift given to us. We should not hold it in our hands for we
may never find strength to let it go when it decides to
leave. We should only embrace its warmth and glow while it
lasts and then freely open our arms when its time to say
goodbye.

When we fall in love with someone, we don’t want that
feeling to end for its everything we are, everything that we
wanted to be. We pray that love will stay and grow in our
hearts. But, if it doesn’t then we should never let our
lives be taken by it, for life should not end where
heartaches begin.

There is always a reason why we have to move on. When we
have to say goodbye to the feelings we wanted to stay
forever, let us not wave our hands with heavy heart. For
love will have to set its wings free and find the place
where it belongs. We may have lost it but then again, when
we close our eyes and listen to the echoes of our hearts we
will hear that feeling resounding silently forever.

Then we’ll know that it has never left us, for the good that
we have become because of love will always stay. It will
always be there reminding us that we should be thankful and
happy, not because we have lost love, but because, for once
in our lives that feeling lived in our hearts and made us
happy.

~~~~~~~~~

It would be wrong to say that love comes and goes without a
trace in our lives. Something of it always remains, whether
it be a memory, a lesson or perhaps even a scar. When we’ve
just lost it, we kick ourselves trying to understand love’s
folly nature. Sometimes we can’t. Years pass, and we still
can’t. Why is it so much easier said than done to be
grateful for someone who came, but had to go? The emphasis
is always on the second part. She had to go. For all our
past happiness; our kisses, our talks and our dreams, she
had to go.

But as a very good friend often told me, losing love may not
make sense now, it may not bring a smile tomorrow, it may
not bring you peace a year from now, but as sure as time
itself, things will get better. Recognize that you’ll have
to go through your hurt, years at a time if need be, and
then know that it will get better.

And soon enough, all that will remain, is that old love, and
that old happiness.

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